There are many things that can happen in daily life and of course it won't be as smooth as how we want it to be. Many a time, one needs to play many roles in life, for me it is switching between the role of a worker, instructor, band mate, friend, boyfriend, son etc.
Of course there isn't a standard way to behave when these roles switch from time to time. Perhaps it depends on the character of the person. But I think if i were to behave according to how people expect me to, I'll be damn fake or if not I would need to have split personality.
Past few weeks has been tough for me. There's so much changes and so much things to look into. I couldn't just run away from it, but I also could not change things by myself. At least, I'll make sure that I will do things that I feel is right. I hate to keep things to myself, and I do not want to fake a personality to get things done. Worst still, if I behave differently while being one of the role and when I switch back to the role of a friend, barriers might have been built up. The above mentioned behavior will make things different as time goes by. That's not my way of doing things, unless I feel the need to behave a certain way or I'm real pissed off haa...
I am starting to understand the saying, colleagues are colleagues not friends, however personally I don't think its 100% true. Case to case basis bah.... But I do need to agree that a lot of times it is not the activities that is difficult to accomplish, it is often people who make things difficult.
Right now I am adopting "Yi Bu Bian Ying Wan Bian" to carry on with my daily life, I shall observe the situation and action when required haa.... Sounds like Sha Shou (killer) right!?!?
Its monday again... Hope next weekend come soon!
Of course there isn't a standard way to behave when these roles switch from time to time. Perhaps it depends on the character of the person. But I think if i were to behave according to how people expect me to, I'll be damn fake or if not I would need to have split personality.
Past few weeks has been tough for me. There's so much changes and so much things to look into. I couldn't just run away from it, but I also could not change things by myself. At least, I'll make sure that I will do things that I feel is right. I hate to keep things to myself, and I do not want to fake a personality to get things done. Worst still, if I behave differently while being one of the role and when I switch back to the role of a friend, barriers might have been built up. The above mentioned behavior will make things different as time goes by. That's not my way of doing things, unless I feel the need to behave a certain way or I'm real pissed off haa...
I am starting to understand the saying, colleagues are colleagues not friends, however personally I don't think its 100% true. Case to case basis bah.... But I do need to agree that a lot of times it is not the activities that is difficult to accomplish, it is often people who make things difficult.
Right now I am adopting "Yi Bu Bian Ying Wan Bian" to carry on with my daily life, I shall observe the situation and action when required haa.... Sounds like Sha Shou (killer) right!?!?
Its monday again... Hope next weekend come soon!
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